Let's Not Forget... October is also Domestic Violence Awareness Month..

We spend a lot of time talking about Breast Cancer Awareness in October, but it's important that we raise awareness about Domestic Violence not only this month, but every month.  October is a time dedicated to increasing awareness and showing support for those targeted and those suffering abuse.

Each year more than 10 million women & men are subjected to physical violence by a domestic partner.  In fact, one in three women and one in four men will experience abuse sometime over the course of their lifetimes.  According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, intimate partner violence accounts for 15% of all violent crime.

If you, or someone you know needs assistance in escaping a violent relationship, please seek help. 

National Domestic Violence Hotline available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 800-799-SAFE (7233). 

Spread Love..

Toni

XO

October is here! And Passion Parties by Toni has BIG announcements!

Hey Kittens!  October is a big month for Passion Parties; Lots of changes that I can’t wait to share.  There’s a new hostess special, new consultant special, and a chance for you to win a trip to Las Vegas for the 50 Shades screening!

Sooo.. The kids are back in school and accustomed to the routine, its fall and the air is getting cooler, and you need something new to do, right?  Well keep in mind, a Passion Party can be held any time of the day, night, or week!  Why, you can have donuts & dildos on a Wednesday morning, a girls night in on Saturday night, Margarita Monday, a catalog or Facebook party.. The possibilities are endless!  And just remember, if you’re not along the East Coast, don’t worry!  I’ve got you covered!!  And your party doesn’t have to be huge, just a couple of your closest girlfriends. 

Check out these fantastic announcements below!  And if you haven’t already, comment or subscribe!

October is Breast Cancer Awareness month, and Passion Parties donates profits each year to help find a cure.  This year Passion Parties has created a set just for this cause.  Item #1530 Pamper Me

Lelo Dare Me collection is October’s monthly hostess exclusive!  The retail value is $119, and the collection includes: Luna Beads Noir- a seductive take on the world’s bestselling Ben Wah Balls.  Wear Luna Beads in or out of the bedroom.  They respond to motion with sensual, subtle vibrations.  Etherea Silk Cuffs- made from luxurious silk & suede, you & your lover can experiment with gently restraining one another (Just remember the safe word!).  Sensua Suede Whip- Discover the temptations of light domination play with this elegant flogger constructed from soft suede. 

Book your party TODAY and find out how to get this for FREE!

Oh, and don't forget...

Until next time..

Spread Love..

Toni

XO

Going the Distance.. (The Pros & Cons of Long Distance Relationships)

Sooo.. Considering I did a two and a half year bid as a long distance lover, I almost feel like an expert at it.  Truth be told, I didn’t mind it, but a certain Boo got tired of it.  So here we are, together.  I will admit, long distance relationships are definitely not for the faint of heart.  It’s hard! It takes patience and understanding.  There’s no room for bad days... or not being in the mood.. You learn to respect the time that you have together because missing a visit could easily result in 3 weeks of not seeing each other.  For me and “the Boo” it seemed easy in the beginning.  We forced ourselves to get on a routine & stick to it.  But after a while, life sometimes got in the way and we had to roll with it.  If you’ve ever wondered how people were able to stomach being in a LDR, trust me.. it’s not so bad.  But here are a few things to consider:

Pros:

o   Its cliché, but absence really does make the heart grow fonder. 

o   Missing him made me realize how important he was to me.

o   I got to luxuriate in my queen size bed & sleep peacefully most nights.

o   Long distance meant keeping the romance alive via lots of weekend getaways & new hobbies (I discovered that I’m a hiker!).

o   You learn to genuinely trust.  It wasn’t always easy, but my heart has opened up to this special dude & it’s a blessing.  (And if you can get through the moments where you feel like you’re going insane, you know he/she’s something special)

o   Amazing sex! When you’ve gone weeks without it, chiiiile…

Cons:

o   You can’t roll over & spontaneously “tap that”.

o   There were definitely days that I felt like I was buggin’.  Insecurities running through my head wondering “What is he doing right now?!”

o   Holidays didn’t mean “Yay, long weekend together!”.. It meant “Shit.  The bus ticket prices will increase.”

o   The minute I got off the bus, it seemed like a timer went off & Sunday was here before you knew it.  Then, the antsy and somber feeling you get on Sunday when it’s almost time to get to the bus.

o   Precious time lost. L

In conclusion, if the opportunity presents itself, take a chance!  You don’t have to be in it for a spouse.  Live a little!  Have some fun!  You get to travel at least once a month, you get a genuine friendship, and who knows, you may find your forever!

Good luck..

Toni

XO

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What would you do for love?

Sooo..  I’ve been gone for a minute, now I’m back (with the jumpoff)!  Ok, so I’m not Lil’ Kim, but I sang that as I typed it.. Anywho.. Guess who decided to relocate??  All in the name of love!  I’ve been meaning to pose this question:  “What would you do for love?”  In my case, I never thought I’d ever pack up my ish  & leave the city that I loved, but, you gotta do what you gotta do.  It’s been tough, but great at the same time.  I love seeing my Boo’s face every day (‘cause the long distance was running its course), but I gotta tell you.. I’ve never done so much damn laundry in my life!  Like, are there mid-day wardrobe changes in this joint or what?!  Sometimes we list all the reasons why we won’t fully commit to doing something for a significant other, but all it takes is letting go & taking a chance.  We love each other, so why not?  So far it’s been worth it & I have a reason to leave the office on time & take my booty home.  Now, two months later, all I need to do is finish unpacking, and then maybe I can get this blog thing mastered!

But tell me, what would YOU do for love?

Until then.. Toodles!

Toni

XO

Phenomenal Woman..

That's me!

This week we lost the original phenomenal woman, Maya Angelou. I was just a girl when I read her iconic poem and couldn't fully appreciate the fact that it was speaking to me, along with many other women. After reading the 1st paragraph I am drawn to my sensuality, my confidence. I hold my head up and embrace being in the body of a woman. There's nothing more greater.. Being a woman allows me to be tough when I need to.. When I'm walking through the halls or sitting at a table in the man-driven world if corporate America, yet, I know that beneath my suit is the softest lace, the most demure lingerie. That when I walk out the doors, I can strip myself of the tough exterior that is much needed and become sensual, loving, fun, me. I am a woman. 

"Pretty women wonder where my secret lies."

Whenever I hear this line, my ears pucker in anticipation of the gems that are being dropped on me. Now that Dr Angelou is resting peacefully, I will frame her poem so that I am reminded every day of the beauty of being a woman. I will encourage young women to read it and use it as the blueprint to building the confidence of being phenomenal, to embrace the pride of who we are, and that we can build empires, be Queens, or simply run the world. I will tell them how I knew the greatness of "The arch of my back. The sun in my smile." 

Because I am a woman. Phenomenally. 

Phenomenal woman. That's me. 

Toni

XO